“I used to be a wedding photographer..." -
I hear that from 6 different people at every wedding.
Why?
Because “Hell hath no fury like a scorned bride”!
The average life span of a wedding photographer is 2-5 years. There simply isn't enough time to learn all the exotic and detailed hidden wishes of a bridal couple and the complexity of fulfilling a wedding day experience. Photographers bail on weddings because they don't have enough time to learn the complicated skills to make couples happy and after a couple of brides get a hold of them after bad weddings ... that is it. They are done.
Fantastic wedding photography is 5 styles not one.
“We don't want to pose for our pictures”. That is photojournalism. That is ONE style of wedding photography….you really probably want 5 styles.
Commercial, architectural, portrait, photojournalism and fine art. PLUS you NEED the most fantastic personality
to come with those complicated skills. A person that can put 40 terrified people at ease. That is a tall order.
I have tried to teach 2 dozen “photographers” my secrets over the years and I had 4 problems.
1. Good shooter…bad personality.
2. Great personality….bad shooter.
3. Great personality…great shooter….not reliable.
4. Great shooter, personality, reliable…not crazy enough to give up every beautiful Saturday of their life to shoot weddings!
With the digital revolution at hand 1,000's of want-to-be's
are flooding the photo market.
The trouble is they will not have the time and patience to learn the complex skills of the hardest job in the world….shooting the perfect wedding AND anticipating the brides every wish before she even has it! When they bail on the idea of being a wedding photographer two new rookies will replace them.
How can so many photographers be shooting weddings?
Basically they are defective parachute salespeople. You buy the chute…jump out of the plane….chute doesn't open…boom. They got your money…you are devastated…or at least less than thrilled with high priced snap shots…and they move on to the next unsuspecting bride.
Price can be deceiving
Rookies are charging $3,500 for their packages! Then there are those that want $500. It's the wild West out there. High price does NOT mean high quality and low price does not mean a good deal.
It has taken me every day of the decades of being a wedding photographer to know what I know and do what I do. Hire experience…it costs you no more and it will be the difference between happiness and heartache.
~Steve Rouch
Steve Rouch Photography www.choicephoto.com 651-644-2184 |